The Muringat Dolls
October 19, 2009
I have a friend named Ramil who had been very queit since the first day we meet. If I have a magic potion to transform him into noisy taking machine, just like me. At first, I started to communicate with him with just asking him a little question. But even I have a good oppurtunity to talk, but it’s lost. Because I don’t know how to ask question skillfully. I think something that he can be able to response with me what I did is just I used “what” question instead of “why” queation. Why question used only when a specific information is needed. If you used “why” in a sentence, a person feels to defend what was just done or said. Accusation arouse defensive behavior. That’s the reason that a person cannot open-up or response. Now, we are already best-friends for the past one year. And I’m glad that I meet him, because he never fails to cheer me up.
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